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2009-04-21 06:13 pm (UTC)
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My unsolicited advice,
Write the following on a notecard and keep it with you:
"Are you here to have a discussion, or are you just picking a fight?"
Repeat word-for-word whenever seems like you're "unclear" on which one they're trying to accomplish.
Used correctly, this will put a stop to 90% of the arguments in the first 30 seconds. :)
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Write the following on a notecard and keep it with you:
"Are you here to have a discussion, or are you just picking a fight?"
Repeat word-for-word whenever seems like you're "unclear" on which one they're trying to accomplish.
Used correctly, this will put a stop to 90% of the arguments in the first 30 seconds. :)